I REFUSE TO.

Had a conversation with one of my best friends a few days ago about malay guys in general.
What they get up to, how they act and how the world has changed. She made me cry with dispair hearing the things she said that I had to accept that guys nowadays are just a certain way.

Why do I have to accept that guys are mostly jerks who does stuff behind their partner's back though they are in a stable relationship that has lasted years?
Why do I have to accept that they want someone to keep for marriage yet find OTHERS on the side?
Why do I have to accept that they might all be liars who don't tell the whole truth?
Why do I have to accept that they are just sweet talkers who don't have an ounce of sincerity?
Why do I have to accept that guys just leave, without having the decency to inform you?
Why do I have to accept that most guys act like the perfect boyfriend yet once the partner is out of sight, she's out of mind as well?
Why do I have to accept guys who so called 'repent' at a certain older age when they knew all along, from young, what they were doing?
(Those who really show remorse are excluded yet you cannot change your past, so prove with with your present.)
They just wanted to have their fun before marriage.
Am I supposed to accept them after they've had their fill?
Are women supposed to resign to fate and accept their filth?

Get this straight.
I REFUSE TO ACCEPT.
The people in the world may have changed for the worst but I believe there are still some guys who treat women with respect and not as objects. They may be rare but they are out there. I do know of some. When did the world changed to be such an immoral society? Indeed people can be deceitful and, who really knows anyone for that matter but you know what, KARMA'S A BITCH. If you are not punished in this lifetime, believe that you will in the afterlife. Which would be worse.

I am not talking about anyone in general because I do believe he's not like that. I honestly do though people just say I'm naive. I do honestly believe it wasn't a lie but only HE and he knows. My conscience is clear because I'm not accusing anyone of anything. Fact is, just as I know of some good guys, there are just ALOT more out there who just pretend to be good.

The bigger question is, How do I begin trusting again? Anyone for that matter.